Internal Family Systems Therapy, Second Edition by Richard C. Schwartz & Martha Sweezy

Author:Richard C. Schwartz & Martha Sweezy [Schwartz, Richard C. & Sweezy, Martha]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw3
Tags: Counseling, Couples & Family, Health, Non-Fiction, Psychology, Relationships, Self-Help, Social Science
ISBN: 9781462541461
Amazon: 1462541461
Publisher: The Guilford Press
Published: 2019-09-22T23:00:00+00:00

Burdens Resulting from Trauma

Family dynamics and bias are not alone in creating burdens. When people get rejected, neglected, abandoned, shocked, scared, or abused (physically, sexually, or emotionally), their injured parts are quickly sequestered and their inner systems polarize. We can testify that numerous traumatized clients have taught IFS practitioners about the kinds of burdening, imbalance, and polarization that typically result from trauma. When a human system—be it individual, family, community, or country—suffers a threat or an overwhelming trauma, it organizes to protect its leadership and its most vulnerable members. For example, if one country threatens another, the threatened country will move its leaders to a safe place. At the same time, civilians will be sent to shelters, and the military will take over. If the leader stays calm, providing a sense of strength and comfort while the crisis is resolved, the public’s trust in the leader is likely to increase. In contrast, the leader who is not able to prevent devastating losses will lose credibility, and the military will likely stay in power.

Internal families operate the same way. Let’s consider an inner family that includes members of various ages and degrees of vulnerability. In the face of danger, the family moves the Self as well as the system’s most vulnerable parts to safety while protective parts step forward. Traumatized clients have taught us that before or during trauma the inner family separates the Self from the sensations of the body to varying degrees (depending on how severe they judge the danger to be)—sometimes pushing it out of the body altogether—and some of the older members take control to protect the system with fight-or-flight responses: lashing out or escaping while more vulnerable parts freeze. These front-line protectors aim to minimize sensations of terror and pain for the system and the Self.

Despite these efforts, the youngest, most vulnerable members of the inner family are powerfully affected by traumatic events. They feel injury, abandonment, and betrayal acutely. When the stimulus is intense enough, vulnerable parts freeze in time and experience a kind of endless Groundhog Day repetition of the trauma, complete with all of its sensations and feelings. By contrast, if the Self can stay embodied and offer immediate assistance, the system’s trust in Self-leadership increases, building inner strength and opposing tendencies to polarize, all of which helps injured parts avoid being exiled and instead stay in the stream of time.

Although Self-leadership throughout a crisis is ideal, the Self cannot always lead during trauma. If the victim is an infant or child, much depends on the reactions of those around her. For example, when a child is returned to safety, comforted, loved, and helped to understand and accept what happened, her Self will also stay available, and will respond to hurt parts inside with love, comfort, and acceptance. In the best-case scenario, the child’s experience is validated, and injured parts unburden spontaneously. If, however, the Self is impotent to protect the system and cannot help traumatized parts after the fact, the inner family will lose trust and become overprotective of both the Self and injured parts.

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